AKA……..OSCAR FACT: In 1939 this gold statue was given the name Oscar. It is said that the name originated from 3 different celebrities. The first one being, a columnist by the name of Sidney Skolsky, who suggested it be named for the famous, Oscar Hammerstein. Mr. Hammerstein was an esteemed American lyricist, who wrote the words to the music of at least 45 famous shows and movies. This list includes Show Boat, Oklahoma, The King and I, and Sound of Music. The next suggestion came from the Academy Librarian, Margaret Herrick, who insisted that the statue looked like her Uncle Oscar. And, not to be outdone, the famous movie actress, Bette Davis said that Oscar’s derriere reminded her of her then-husband, Harmon OSCAR Nelson. Because of these insistent analogies, the award forever and always was known as: OSCAR. 
It was an era of elegance, unprecedented beauty, abundance of talent, and a dedication by the actors to their craft of unsurpassed excellence and perfection. STAR QUALITY MEANT SOMETHING!  EDITORIAL BY CAROL-ROSE There were HAPPY and JOYFUL musicals with dancers and singers; costumes that made you wish you could wear them too. We were mesmerized by the dancing of Fred Astaire. His rendition in the movie Top Hat (as above) would stand alone in the memories of moviegoers. Can’t forget Gene Kelly for Singing in the Rain; Judy Garland, Anne Miller, and Esther Williams. We always remember the beauty of Elizabeth Taylor, Grace Kelly, the rogue handsome face of Clark Gable, and so very many more. When you went to the movies, you were truly entertained! ALL AT ONCE……..EVERYTHING CHANGED! NOTHING WAS THE SAME! Lacking was a sense of respect. The “CAST” of this profession became complacent, greedy, and full of themselves. They forgot that the overall purpose of their JOB WAS ENTERTAINMENT. ENTERTAINMENT WAS WHAT THEY WERE BEING PAID FOR! SUDDENLY……….., it was ALL ABOUT THEM and PERSONAL CAUSES……... To name a few incidents, this phenomenon started years ago and became worse with every passing year. There was a path of destruction in progress. There are too many issues to cite in this article but to name a few: In 1973, Marlon Brando won the Oscar for best actor. In his infinite wisdom, or shall I say absurdity, he refused the award. Further, he did not attend but sent in his place, Sacheen Littlefeather, an Apache Indian, to make a statement as to how American Indians were treated. We are not disputing this, but saying, this had NOTHING to do with NOTHING, NAMELY THE AWARDS. In 1974, the actor David Niven was on stage, and without warning, a male STREAKER APPEARED and ran across the stage, butt-naked at a steady speed. Being the professional Mr. Niven is, he watched, smiled, and then said: Isn’t it fascinating to think that the only laugh that man will get in his lifetime, is by stripping off his clothes and showing his shortcomings? WHAT ARE WE THINKING? IT’S DISTURBING! We remember Clark Gable’s famous line in “Gone With The Wind…...”Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.” It seems appropriate. Now, the 2023 televised Oscar show has the lowest audience ever. Actually, just over 16 million, when its best years were over 30 Million. Somewhere, someplace, along the way, it became a sounding board for entertainers to complain about politics, religion, congress, presidents, their wages, their clothes, their Aunt Mabel, their whatever. It was done cruelly to a totally captive audience dressed up in finery and a group of viewers at home. They totally forgot about entertainment. We responded by not watching anymore. JUST THOUGHT I WOULD DOCUMENT THIS FOR YOU: Last but not least is the nail in the coffin. In 2022, there were 20 million viewers. Obviously, 4 million were lost in one year because of "The Slap Heard Around the World." Will Smith got up and full-face SLAPPED the Master of Ceremonies, Chris Rock. Did he have a reason? Who cares! This man was out of line, rude, UNCARING, DISRESPECTFUL, YOU NAME IT! Incredibly, he was allowed to sit down and also receive the best actor award. The audience applauded him. It was all a joke, man! As a side note, just saying, everyone watches the Couture on these shows. Currently, we are shown gowns with only a little feather covering the top of women’s breasts, g-string underwear, and sheer material covering this scanties. I’ll say no more…...your choice! I hope you are happy, Hollywood. You outdid yourself. HOW TO FIX THIS PROBLEM: JUST GO BACK TO DOING YOUR JOB. ENTERTAIN!!!!!!!
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 THOUGHTS: HOW LIFE HAS CHANGED !!! NOW: I received an unexpected email this week. It was a sonogram of a baby clearly dated, "5th month/20 weeks." A thrilling picture that was clear as day, with a baby sucking it's thumb and it's right leg stretching. And, IT'S A GIRL !! WHO CAN DISPUTE THAT THIS IS A LIVING BABY?  Further along at 30 weeks, I was sent an awe inspiring, updated 3-D sonogram of the same baby's progress. You can see her face. She has clearly developed into a beautiful child with discernible features. Is this not amazing? 10 more weeks to go ! THEN: Back in the day of my pregnancies, it was all a mystery until the moment of birth. My mom instructed, "Only buy yellow, green, and white for your layette. We'll fill in when the baby is born." I remember the moment of my First-born's birth and hearing, "IT'S A BOY !!!" After 9 months I finally knew the gender. "BUY BLUE," I cried to my Mother! It's a wonderful world we live in. Things you can only appreciate NOW... Simply because you didn't have it THEN !!!! UPDATE...I'M HERE! "IT WAS A TOUGH FIGHT........"  "BUT, I WON !!!! "  CELEBRATE YOUR JOYFUL TABLE… How time flies! Seems like we just put away our December holiday ornaments. Fast approaching are the Spring holidays. We are anxious to get together with our favorite people, put aside the stress of the work week, and enjoy our holiday dinner. An interesting cut of meat is Brisket.
Clearly, there are many variations of this versatile cut of meat, but here is my favorite recipe:  THE CAROL-ROSE SIMPLE BRISKET RECIPE
The next day, remove the fat that has accumulated on top of the meat. Slice the cold brisket against the grain and place back in pan. You may again add water if needed. Optional: Add a cup of red wine, 2 Splenda packages, and chunks of potatoes if you wish. Continue to Cook for another half hour. Place on warm until needed. VOILA! EAT, MANGIARE, ESSEN, MANGER, ESN, WHATEVER THE LANGUAGE, IT UNIVERSALLY TASTES GOOD! I SUPPOSE YOU WILL THINK IT STRANGE, FOR ME TO PLACE THIS ITEM IN THE CATEGORY OF WHATNOTS... IT IS AN ITEM THAT IS SOUGHT AFTER BY WOMEN OF ALL AGES, FROM THE BEGINNING OF TIME, AND BY MEN, FOR ITS BEAUTY AND VALUE. JEWELRY MY VERY FAVORITE WHATNOT!  WHAT IS YOUR FANCY? SILVER, GOLD, PLATINUM, DIAMONDS, RUBIES, EMERALDS, PEARLS, RINGS AND THINGS, ETC., ETC., ETC.!! One of the most famous jeweler of all time is TIFFANY & Co., encompassing 200 years of history. We remember a famous movie in 1961 called "Breakfast at Tiffany's”. The movie opens with: Audrey Hepburn (Holly GoLightly) stepping out of a cab holding a cup of coffee, dressed in evening clothes. Was she a socialite, adorned in elegance, or in fact, was she a lady of the night getting off from work? No matter, for she is iconicly gorgeous as she peruses the enchanting Tiffany windows. Almost as famous as the jewels it might house, is the legendary little blue box, known as "Tiffany Blue Box." It is beautifully tied with a white ribbon and known all over the world. This special hue is described as a medium, robin egg blue color and was created personally by Charles Tiffany in 1837. It is a registered trademark by Tiffany & Co. and synonymous with the company.  It is a proven fact that Jewelry makes a woman FEEL POSITIVE and creates a FEELING OF CONFIDENCE. Perhaps some consider it to be frivolous, but nevertheless, we consider it JOYFUL. Whether it be a young girl's first gift from her beloved or a woman of royalty or wealth considering a piece for her collection...
Let's face it ladies, WE ARE ALL SMITTEN! I sometimes think if I had to do all over again, I would become a gemologist I would travel to Africa, and learn about the mines, continue on to Paris, Milan and London and create collections, one for every day of the week. Remember, the dedication on the home page and in the book, "The Feeling?" It said, DREAM A DREAM...... well, WHY NOT???  THE FEELING OF FEAR ENCOMPASSES FRIGHT, TERROR AND SCARED REACTIONS My most significant fear is the state of world dissension. History records times of protests, crisis, and wars from forces resistant to democracy and peace. Currently, rivalry for power is back among countries. We must be on point to navigate erupting issues. It is frightening to think of war, in light of new and existing destructive weapons. A moment of levity... Question: What do you think is the month of the year, most hated by new military enlistees? Answer: "MARCH!" I believe that Albert Einstein said it best in his following descriptive comment: "I know not what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.." "IT MAKES ME SHUDDER !!"  "However, that morning, she couldn't put it into words; but she had a FEELING of unrest, of uncertainty, and she was experiencing a clear unspoken warning." Discussion: We are introduced to Rachel and Michael Sanders and their idiosyncrasies. Trained from childhood not to give in to negative feelings, Rachel still knew something was wrong! Commanding attention were the flip-flops in her stomach. Was she imagining something or was this all consuming feeling the real deal? Click below to download Chapter One of The Feeling
 THE FEELING OF OUTRAGE - an extremely strong reaction of anger, shock, and indignation. (Just look at that baby boy. He is outraged after listening to this article.)
"CONCIERGE" Is it luxury? Or Is it medical? HEARING THE WORD "CONCIERGE" BRINGS TO MIND A CARETAKER FOR A HOTEL, OR BUILDING; AN EMPLOYEE WHO ASSISTS WITH THEATER TICKETS OR RESTAURANT RESERVATIONS, APPOINTMENTS, OR VIP CLIENTS. When I researched the term, I came upon categories such as, Personal, Hotel, Travel, Lifestyle, Corporate, Residential, etc. To me, concierge falls within the walls of a luxury type service or industry. At least, that is what I thought????? Our personal life includes outside services of firemen, bankers, computer firms, policemen, electricians, attorneys, insurance, hairdressers, car specialists, pharmacists, dental services, medical doctors, and medical facilities. All professions that we require assistance from daily. It is true, that "IT TAKES A VILLAGE" to run our personal lives in this day and age. OMG, what would happen if all of these categories and more, started requiring a membership or "concierge" fee before attaining their services? Mind you, this fee has nothing to do with the actual cost of their service, but is an EXTRA. How could we afford this? Just not possible you say, even though it is necessary. SURPRISE !!! THERE IS A NEW "CONCIERGE" SERVICE SLOWLY GROWING MOMENTUM IN OUR DAILY LIFE. IT IS CALLED: "MEDICAL CONCIERGE PRACTICE" In some circles, the word "BOUTIQUE" is used. NO •••••• boutique does not mean fancy hats, makeup, designer items! In this case, it is referring to our good, old, family doctor who just wants more money for his services because he is a "special" worker in your daily life. Here is the definition of Concierge Medicine: "A platinum practice for direct primary care. An extra fee is required for you to have personal access to your doctor." ("Gee Mom, I remember the doctor making house calls. I remember Saturday appointments. Typically, this profession made themselves available 24/7.") Now if you call your doctor's office, you get a recording, something like this: "Please listen carefully. You have reached the office of Dr. Primary. We are available from 10 am to 12 noon. We are closed from 12 noon to 2 pm for lunch. We are then available from 2 - 4:30 PM. ONLY MONDAY-FRIDAY. No weekends. Any emergencies, dial 911 or go to the emergency room! (As an aside, this might change if the doctor has a golf game one day). Exaggeration?? No, not really ! Is it a joke? If so, THE JOKE IS ON US !! QUESTION: How does a concierge, or more properly, "a fee for nothing" practice work? ANSWER: You pay an upfront fee for the ability to call your doctor when you are sick, or for a regular visit. It is usually between $1250 and $2500 per person per year. I am told there are many practices who charge up to $10,000 per person per year. If you cannot afford this, it is okay with the doctor because he can now be more selective when choosing his patients. He can choose a wealthier base and have a perfect remuneration practice. QUESTION: Sounds like bias to me! Does not sound like the Hippocratic Oath the doctor swore to. ANSWER: Sounds like it sounds. QUESTION: Is there a contract? ANSWER: Yes. Typically, you sign a contract for one year. When that year is up, you can sign the next year's contract, usually with a fee increase. Some calculate this fee by age. It has NOTHING to do with your personal Medicare and/or secondary insurance that you are still expected to keep, and YOUR INSURANCE DOES NOT USUALLY PAY THE CONCIERGE FEE. QUESTION: What do you get for this? ANSWER: Telehealth visits and office visits are usually unlimited. This is just between doctor and patient. You will get same day or next day appointments. Generally, they promise more personal service. Our patient ponders all this, and thinks, "Of course I know that the doctor has spent many years on education and invested beau coup dollars in doing so. But, Doc, you are not the only profession that people invest time and money preparing for. In the case of the legal profession, there is usually a retainer fee. The difference is that the retainer fee is used for upfront charges as the case progresses, for your benefit. In the case of medical concierge fees, it is just an additional expense to the patient." EXAMPLE OF A CASE IN POINT: Dr. Primary is charging $2200 a person and limiting his practice to 450 patients. Let's do the math: $2200 X 450 patients= $990,000 a year. YES, ALMOST A COOL MILLION DOLLARS! WITHOUT EVEN TAKING OUT HIS STETHOSCOPE ! Dr. Primary has been this couple's primary doctor for over 16 years. When requested by the doctor, they subscribed to a more expensive medical plan for the doctor to be paid more. Mr. & Mrs. Patient have now been told it was not enough for Dr. Primary. The problem with insurance is that he actually has to work to get paid. With concierge fees, he doesn't have to do anything but pocket the fancy fee. Dr. Primary even told Mr. & Mrs. Patient that, after the country club all day, his poor wife had to help him with paper work at night. Mr. & Mrs Patient received a formal letter informing them of the new practice. Two days later they called and were told that the practice was now "filled up". They were shocked! To make matters worse, other patients and doctors informed them that their doctor had been working on this sneakily for a whole year, securing and choosing his best financial patients. WHAT A SCAM!!! Mr. & Mrs. Patient found that there were still other doctors out there who make a good living and yet care about their patients without a fancy "Concierge Fee." Perhaps you would like to think of this as a tip, as you do in a restaurant? There is a New York expression, "HE THINKS WHO HE IS." IS IT ARROGANCE, CONCEIT, ENTITLEMENT ??? Take a stand. It is all up to you. You can continue being scammed by these doctors or you can: TELL IT LIKE IT IS ! IT IS AN OUTRAGE! Good Health to all! With this phenomenon, we certainly need it. Good Luck and like Mom said, "Remember" to eat your fruits and vegetables!" |
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