 Did you know that the word "JUNE" comes from the Goddess of Marriage......JUNO? Did you know...In ancient Egyptian times, it was believed the "venus amorous," or the Vein of Love, ran from the heart to the 4th finger of the left hand.? In modern times, it was proven that all fingers have veins. This myth persisted and it was the designated finger to wear a wedding ring. Did you know...The wedding ring, having no beginning and no end, symbolizes Eternity?! Did you know...The 3 most important words for a marriage are: PLEASE, THANKS, AND SORRY! Did you know...that the wedding was soooooo emotional, that the wedding cake was in tiers! Did you know...That our groom, Mr. Right, and our bride, Mrs. Right, coincidently had the same first name? Their mutual first name was, "Always.” (uh, oh!)  Weddings range from economical elopements to "sky's the limit." There is unbelievable preparation by all of the wedding party and guests. All in the name of LOVE. In the end, the success of marriage comes down to the three (3) C's: COMMUNICATION COMMITMENT COMPROMISE REMEMBER... HAPPY SPOUSE, HAPPY HOUSE! CONGRATULATIONS AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL OUR BRIDES AND GROOMS! Carol-Rose Marshall Author, Blogger, 
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The U.S. Navy, U.S. Marine Corps., and U.S. Coast Guard have a tradition where active military ships recently deployed in overseas operations dock in a variety of major cities for one week. The crews enter the city and visit tourist attractions.  It's the 1950's and we were World War II babies, now 17-18 years old. It was a different time and we were not worried about going into New York City, traveling on the subway, or unusual safety issues. My girlfriend, Marilyn K-P, and I were excited to go to Times Square during Fleet Week. We dressed up. Always skirts or dresses, college-size heels, lipstick, and powder, and were ready to go!  The fleet was in, and there were hoards of sailors all over New York City. The first stop is Times Square. We laughed, we spoke to them, we joined them in a drink (a drink at that time was a Coca-Cola or a milkshake). We showed them the Empire State Building. We did not have cell phones and were unreachable to our parents. But no one worried as we were safe and happy. We met our friends and traded stories with sailors who lived all over the United States and the world. Everyone was respectful. It was about honoring our Fleets, welcoming them, and meeting the “all-American girls” of New York. We explained our education, our life, etc., and listened to young men, off to who-knows-where. They were appreciative and it was all about having a good day. It was fun, and informative and opened up horizons in a good clean day’s events for all of us. We moved on and although approached to write to them, we declined. It was not realistic and we were just a welcoming committee to be stored as memories. Here I am in 2023 remembering. No, I would not allow my daughter or grandchildren to do this now. It is a different world (so sad) and there are many cries of danger, not with the fleet, but in New York City. How I wish they all had known that freedom, but the city has changed.  I love our American values. Please don't change them. My beloved grandson is graduating from Annapolis this weekend. We congratulate him and his beautiful young companions at Annapolis. The famed Blue Angels will fly over the Annapolis Graduation services. So exciting and spectacular! We are so proud of you all!  It's graduation time, not only at Annapolis but all across the land. Congratulations to my other grandchildren who are graduating, and those who are already fulfilling a work career.
We respect our constitution, our American Flag, and the young men and women who will be instrumental in developing a better world. And again, IT'S FLEET WEEK.............WELCOME !!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!! Be assured, I truly believed this was just a luncheon with my children. It had been a long time since we were all together in one room. When my son and daughter-in-law, who reside in Florida, offered to host it at their country club, I was happy to come as a guest. My husband and I arrived at the Country Club, along with my youngest daughter from New York and her fiancé. My son was guiding us through the dining room. My first FEELING was one of annoyance that we had to walk so far into the dining room. (Oh well, no-one ever listens to me) There were curtains ahead of us sectioning off a room of the club, and my son kept saying that he wanted us to see the new renovations the club had made. (Oh, can’t walk so far, why do I care?)  He parted the curtains and I saw a blur of people at tables in front of me. I turned to him and said, “This is a private party, let’s go.” Then I heard an exuberant crowd yelling, “SURPRISE”……HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!” I thought, “OMG, THIS IS FOR ME!! OMG, I SHOULD HAVE HAD MY HAIR DONE! OMG, I would have worn something else…. And then, OMG I never had a surprise party before……. MY HEART STARTED PUMPING HARD! I am so EXCITED!!” My daughter, who resides in Florida, came rushing towards me, hugging and yelling “surprise.” My son from New York came over and exuberantly kissed me. My grandchildren flooded towards me...…. (I can’t believe it. This is thrilling…….) Then I turned to the table to my right and was totally taken aback that my childhood friends were sitting there….I hugged them and started to cry. (How did they get here?) My husband sent an uber for them. Then it hit me, my husband and I are together 24/7. How did he do this without my knowing? And my Florida son and daughter-in-law were his accomplices.” (Never thought anything would get by me, but….IT DID!) Then I turned and saw all my beautiful family and friends that filled the room. It looked like more than 40 people. STILL AMAZED, I THOUGHT, This is for me…..I can’t believe it. I am so thrilled and so grateful for all of you in my life. I GREETED EVERYONE….There was FABULOUS FUN, FABULOUS FOOD, FABULOUS PICTURES, FABULOUS CAKE, AND TABLE WTH A LARGE POSTER OF MY FIRST BOOK. WOW! EVERYONE SIGNED IT…..AND…..BEAUTIFUL GIFTS, WITH THE MOST FABULOUS HUSBAND, CHILDREN, FAMILY, AND FRIENDS ANYONE IN THIS WORLD COULD WANT.”    And…..they were not through yet…..after a glorious party, an after party with barbecue for all who could attend, at my son’s home…...This marvelous day will never end in my heart. Dear Everyone: Thank you so much….a special day, and feeling in my heart and soul. It was a remembrance that I will never forget. May you have all the love your heart can hold…. All the happiness a day can bring…. All the blessings a life can unfold. Thanks, kisses, hugs, appreciation, and joy for a Once in a Lifetime Surprise! (I have to write about this on my blog.) Carol-Rose Marshall Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Friend, Relative & Confidant Author and Blogger  CELEBRATE YOUR JOYFUL TABLE… How time flies! Seems like we just put away our December holiday ornaments. Fast approaching are the Spring holidays. We are anxious to get together with our favorite people, put aside the stress of the work week, and enjoy our holiday dinner. An interesting cut of meat is Brisket.
Clearly, there are many variations of this versatile cut of meat, but here is my favorite recipe:  THE CAROL-ROSE SIMPLE BRISKET RECIPE
The next day, remove the fat that has accumulated on top of the meat. Slice the cold brisket against the grain and place back in pan. You may again add water if needed. Optional: Add a cup of red wine, 2 Splenda packages, and chunks of potatoes if you wish. Continue to Cook for another half hour. Place on warm until needed. VOILA! EAT, MANGIARE, ESSEN, MANGER, ESN, WHATEVER THE LANGUAGE, IT UNIVERSALLY TASTES GOOD! I SUPPOSE YOU WILL THINK IT STRANGE, FOR ME TO PLACE THIS ITEM IN THE CATEGORY OF WHATNOTS... IT IS AN ITEM THAT IS SOUGHT AFTER BY WOMEN OF ALL AGES, FROM THE BEGINNING OF TIME, AND BY MEN, FOR ITS BEAUTY AND VALUE. JEWELRY MY VERY FAVORITE WHATNOT!  WHAT IS YOUR FANCY? SILVER, GOLD, PLATINUM, DIAMONDS, RUBIES, EMERALDS, PEARLS, RINGS AND THINGS, ETC., ETC., ETC.!! One of the most famous jeweler of all time is TIFFANY & Co., encompassing 200 years of history. We remember a famous movie in 1961 called "Breakfast at Tiffany's”. The movie opens with: Audrey Hepburn (Holly GoLightly) stepping out of a cab holding a cup of coffee, dressed in evening clothes. Was she a socialite, adorned in elegance, or in fact, was she a lady of the night getting off from work? No matter, for she is iconicly gorgeous as she peruses the enchanting Tiffany windows. Almost as famous as the jewels it might house, is the legendary little blue box, known as "Tiffany Blue Box." It is beautifully tied with a white ribbon and known all over the world. This special hue is described as a medium, robin egg blue color and was created personally by Charles Tiffany in 1837. It is a registered trademark by Tiffany & Co. and synonymous with the company.  It is a proven fact that Jewelry makes a woman FEEL POSITIVE and creates a FEELING OF CONFIDENCE. Perhaps some consider it to be frivolous, but nevertheless, we consider it JOYFUL. Whether it be a young girl's first gift from her beloved or a woman of royalty or wealth considering a piece for her collection...
Let's face it ladies, WE ARE ALL SMITTEN! I sometimes think if I had to do all over again, I would become a gemologist I would travel to Africa, and learn about the mines, continue on to Paris, Milan and London and create collections, one for every day of the week. Remember, the dedication on the home page and in the book, "The Feeling?" It said, DREAM A DREAM...... well, WHY NOT??? |
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