Chatter Box Rule

Dear Carol-Rose: 
I read your book and it resonated with me. I find myself in similar circumstances and do not know what to do. I don't think I can maintain my marriage for the elongated time period you did. Can you help me decide what to do?
Unhappy Elizabeth 
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Dear Unhappy Elizabeth: 
There is no set rule on how to end a marriage. It all depends on individual circumstances.. A lack of funds is a serious consideration. It is best to prepare oneself with a job and funds to see you through. If there are children to consider, assess their ages and requirements. If there is an affair in progress by either party, a plan to terminate same and reconstruct your marriage is in order. It goes without saying that, if there is any type of abuse involved, you must protect yourself and children immediately. If none of the above helps at this time, follow the "Chatter Box Rule: 


                    "Take time to reflect and plan carefully. When the timing is right, things fall into place 
                    and your decisions will be clear. However, when you do not know what to do..., 
                                           ...DO NOTHING!" 

Only the right timing and clear thinking ensures success. Wishing you good luck. 

Carol-Rose, 
Your Favorite Chatter Box