caught up...

Dear Carol-Rose:
Please help! I am caught up in an affair. Fortunately, it has not been exposed. At least, so far!
I did not seek it out, it just happened. I love my husband and want my marriage, but do not want to give up this great sex I've experienced. I know it is a matter of time before this blows up. What should I do?
From,
Caught Up
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Dear Caught Up,
You are not the wife being wronged. You are the wife seeking "more". Nothing just happens! There are circumstances that predecease it. I use the term "predecease" because something died. You do not mention love or friendship in this affair, only sex.

So, listen girl!
You had a fling, and you enjoyed the benefits. But, the bottom line is, you still want your marriage!
The reasons don't matter. You strayed and found the sex you longed for. Here's your best approach:

                  Leave it in its place...a moment in time!  Nothing more, nothing less!
​                  It's not enough for a lifetime commitment!

And so, Caught Up, take all that you learned and apply it to your marriage! 
                  Catch up!   We sometimes need to update our marital education! 

​Try it! You might like it! 

Good luck!
​Carol-Rose
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