No Honor Here!

Dear Chatterbox,
 
I am going to my best friend’s wedding and she has asked me to be her Maid of Honor. 

I have been keeping a secret from her. Prior to her engagement, her boyfriend and I hooked up in a weak moment. We both realized it was a huge mistake. We instantly stopped our relationship. 

How can I be her Maid of Honor? Should I confess or let it go? 

From,
No Honor Here

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Dear No-Honor here,

The real problem here is that you “crossed the line” in your friendship. In other words, you went beyond what is proper or acceptable in your relationship with the bride. The groom committed infidelity. Do not “kiss and tell.” That confession lies with her groom. 

Your secret does not fit the criteria of Maid of Honor. 

It is best to bow out gracefully of that title, and just attend as a guest. There are a host of excuses you can make. You can’t change these circumstances. I suggest that in the future you think about how weak moments can change valued relationships. Good Luck! 

Carol-Rose 
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